When a Guy Does This, It Makes Sex SO MUCH Hotter
There are many things a man can do to make sex great, from taking time for foreplay to varying the pace midaction. But friends and I recently dished on the one thing that elevates great sex to ah-oh-ah-mazing sex, and that’s a little eye contact when your guy goes down under.
We used to find this kind of eyeballing disconcerting. After all, no one loves her “O” face—and when he’s watching you, it’s all too easy to lose sight of how you feel so you can worry about how you look. But if you can let that go and let him get his three-second gaze on, you can take your connection to a whole nother level.
Just think about it: He’s licking and kissing your nether regions, so you’re already in ecstasy. But then he locks those gorgeous eyes with yours and for a few heartbeats—one, two, three—he looks at you in a way that conveys, “I’m crazy about what I am doing to you. You are so hot, and I am so turned on.” You can see his determination to make you feel oh so good, and he sees he’s achieving his goal. That’s what you call mutual satisfaction.
The one naysayer in our group finds the whole situation unnerving. “I just want to stay in the zone,” she has said. “I don’t get how women can be comfortable when a guy is down there looking up at you.” I get it—I used to feel the same way. But I think with a little confidence and a guy who doesn’t make you feel self-conscience, this is the one move that makes sex so much hotter.
Do you like when a guy looks at you when he’s down there? Why or why not?